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[quote=Anonymous][quote] If he also was attending a private we would had have to stop funding our retirement for the duration of his education, but now we don’t [/quote] First thing, is to admit to yourself at least, that this was poor planning on your part. To have provided for one child what you likely can't provide for the other. Imo. For one thing, make sure you don't let private-school snobbery attitude have any place in your home. Don't accept any talk espousing the advantages of one over another. For me, I would not discuss the financial difference, while being open to financial help for #2. I would want to do that. If for example, #2 was graduating college and needed a car..... I think at that time you say you'd like to help/or pay and mention you - are able do it - since you had not had the same tuition expense.[/quote]
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