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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not going to get better. Set your boundaries. Hold firm. [/quote] This is the only correct answer. And you have to learn to ignore they're mean comments, and to block them (literally) when they harass you. They can only make you feel as bad as you let them. My father was like this and said horrible, horrible things to me. At some point I realized the problem was him, no me. So I stopped responding and when he issued his threats, ultimatums, or namecalled, I just would say "well, that's up to you if you feel that way but I'm doing XXXX. . . . " Until I finally just ended the relationship. It's been 25 years. I don't mourn him as he is not a nice person. Not a kind person. Not a person I would have chosen as a parent, friend, anything. But I see friends and the relationships they have with their parents, and I mourn the parent I wanted but never had. And I will never have. [/quote]
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