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[quote=Anonymous]I agree you need to see a financial specialist and/or a family lawyer who specializes in elder care. I don’t think you would be responsible for her bills, but they will clarify. Also, that will help you set any boundaries. If you cannot pay for something, she will go without. Or, you could spend the time to help her get state benefits. I suggest, as much as you can, to take the anger and frustration out of it. Having compassion for her and you (re your energy, willingness, and boundaries) will go a long way in your relationship. I say that from experience. [/quote]
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