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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you are not involved and I’m sorry if that hurts you.

But, only because he mentioned it so recently, I would ask. “Congratulations on the engagement! Do you still want me to be a groomsman? [b]I’m happy to do it if you want me to or I’m happy to be a guest, just let me know so I can plan properly. It’s all good, ether way[/b].”[/quote]

These are only two choices. The third choice is that you are not in the wedding and not invited.

OP, I would not ask if he wants you in the wedding. If he wants to in the wedding, he knows he needs to tell you. Even if his wife or a planner is handling it, they will advise him in due time to reach out to you. That is if he even wants you in the wedding. Either wait for his contact or wait for the save the date. He need to let you know the logistics anyway.

I think part of the problem is you’re getting advice from mostly women on this board, including me. Women would be all in their feelings and would NEED to know -  which is why it sounds like the original post was written by a female.

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