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[quote=Anonymous]I am direct generally but also recognize most people don't like it. I save my directness for when something impacts me directly. Like I would definitely speak to the host about the dog in that pitbull thread, either just saying "I don't feel comfortable around your dog so I'll need to bow out" or asking the group if we could move it to somewhere else. A lot of people are direct about stuff that is none of their business and no one likes that. Like you don't need to be direct with someone about how you think their hair looks better long or you think they are in the wrong field, unless they ask you directly and you have that kind of relationship. But directness to get needs met or establish boundaries in relationships? I do that a lot. But yes, people like me less for it. They want someone to go along to get along. Oh well.[/quote]
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