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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, how close have you really been to this bully of a sister? Do you talk regularly? See each other twice a year? Something else? Assuming you have some level of contact, I would call and just say you are sorry for her loss.

I have a sister who cut us all off for several years and we now have a very superficial texting relationship. If her husband dies, I will definitely call her to express my condolences. TBD on whether I would take the time to fly to attend the funeral, but I would consider it. I haven’t seen her in years. Next time I see her will likely be our dad’s funeral.[/quote]
We live in the same town. We saw each other regularly for family events until covid put a stop to that. They reconnected at that time. Gatherings resumed after the vaccines were out, but I was going through a health issue and kept my distance. I always thought our age difference was why we weren't close, but I see it's that I am not ok with how I was treated back then. I will call her and give condolences. [/quote]

Same poster. A 16 year old who thinks it is ok to bully an 8 year old has serious issues. Unless your sister has had some serious therapy and perhaps medication, I would start hanging out with her a lot less. But, you should call and say you are sorry for her loss. And then, you really don’t have to ever think about this guy again.[/quote]

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