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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Seriously? You support your sister in her loss and don’t talk shit about her dead boyfriend. He’s gone now; just be decent person instead of making it about how he was a dick to you 45 years ago.[/quote]
I would never talk shit about him, dead or alive. She witnessed his poor treatment of me back then and stood by, laughing. I was 8, they were 16 and 18. He did things like stuff me between the matress and boxspring and jumped on top. He also held me off the floor by my throat against a wall while she laughed at how I was kicking my legs out. Things like that occured every time he was around. That's part of the reason I have a distant relationship with her. Even though it's been 40 plus years, it wasn't ok.[/quote]

Just be like “I’m sorry Dick died. I won’t be able to come to the funeral but I’m thinking of you”. And then inwardly smile about how he is no longer on this earth.[/quote]

This is a little harsh, but not wrong.[/quote]

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