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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]However, even if you do genuinely like queen bees, sometimes it seems odd that everyone in the group (including yourself) tries to stay in their good books or sings their praises at a higher note than of others.[/quote] This is the problem, though -- if you have a bona fide queen bee in your group, people will work to ingratiate themselves with her. They will compete for her attention, and that competition becomes toxic because people will feel compelled to try and put themselves above others using tactics like gossip and exclusion. It always goes wrong. Sometimes the queen bee encourages or participates in this behavior, and that's the worst possible situation. But even when the QB stays "above the fray," she's usually flattered by the attention and can exploit it in ways that make it worse. It never ends well. There are always casualties.[/quote]
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