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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Make you" carry on conversation? Nope, you can bring a magazine or a book and hang out and only engage in as much conversation as you want. If it's awkward, that's on him. "I'm willing to go with you if you want to go, but I will not be listening to any complaining in the car on the way there or back, because you are choosing this. I will also not be carrying on conversation while you sulk; you are choosing this. If you complain to me in the car, or sulk and expect me to carry on conversation at your parents' house, I will never accompany you to a family function again. Choose wisely, because I mean every word."[/quote] +10000 Dealing with this is about setting boundaries NOW and calling out his behavior leading up to it. [b]He doesn’t get to be a victim here and make everyone else miserable[/b]. [/quote] Neither does OP. She can choose not to go. If she goes, it's on her.[/quote]
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