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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Geez, this is reminding me of when they circulated slam books in my MS. Someone wrote that I talked too much, and it chilled me. Like I stopped talking for a while. This stuff in MS is really pernicious. I think it's worth trying to have a conversation with her -- ask who said it, whether it's someone who she generally respects -- if she respects this person, ask why. If she doesn't respect this person, ask why she's giving weight to their opinion. Ask what she would tell a friend if this person said something like that to her friend. Ask if this person has any reason to have bad motives towards her (she just got a good grade and the person failed the test, she just got a part in the play and this person did not, etc....). My bet is that this is some loser kid who she probably doesn't even like, but she is letting them get into her head. Once you break it down, it's sort of amazing that we let people like this have power over us. [/quote] dp... I've said the same above to my DD, but MSers are very emotionally sensitive, so things said by even people they don't like will hit them hard.[/quote]
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