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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You feel guilt because you've been conditioned by your mother and society to attend to the needs of your mother at the expense of yourself - it would be the 'nice' thing to do even though you don't have the reserve to do it. You need to be aware of this conditioning and how it makes you feel. [b]No matter what decision you make, you're going to have some sort of negative emotion. [/b] If you help her, you'll feel resentful and feel even more weight/stress because of your workload. If you don't help, you'll feel guilt and, perhaps, the judgement of others. [b]Which scenario is less burdensome for you?[/b][/quote] DP. Best response so far and so true. Weigh which will make you feel worse. Either way, I would find a way to talk to your mom after this is over and tell her how you feel. [/quote]
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