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[quote=Anonymous]I had an uncle and grandpa who both used the N-word and made racist comments. Fortunately my parents had shaped my values well enough that I was horrified and found them ignorant and wanted to minimize my time around them (even from a young age) versus at all influenced by it. That’s just to say that I think you *can* see them occasionally and not worry too much about their influence. However they doesn’t mean you must. I think it’s be very reasonable to say that your kid should never be with them unsupervised and that if they say anything offensive, you will wrap up the visit right there and there even if it means heading to a hotel and flying home early. Leave abruptly a couple times and people typically learn to control their language real fast. And if they don’t you can severe the relationship with your child guilt free bc at that point you are literally protecting your kid from people that aren’t looking out for their best interest at all[/quote]
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