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[quote=Anonymous]Your spouse will need to to attempt to set boundaries. I would start that early because you don't want your kid learning racist words in toddlerhood. There is a process with this. You try to set boundaries. You enforce boundaries. Sometimes you have to make it clear what consequences could turn into besides leaving-"If you cannot refrain from racist talk/homophobic/whatever" then we will not visit with baby. If your husband still wants a relationship with them after setting boundaries and having them violated over and over, then let him. He has to figure out things for himself. I would protect kids if boundaries don't work, but he's a grownup and should make his own decisions about himself.[/quote]
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