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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry that was a typo. Yes, basically I’d like to live together or remarry one day.

Thanks pp. Out of curiosity how long did you date your DH before he wanted to get married?[/quote]

You sound like you really want to be married. And the “live together” bit is lip service.

A lot of men in his situation are understandably wary of getting married again. Try not to take it personally. And be honest — if you really want marriage as the end goal, don’t dangle this “live together” circumstance as a permanent arrangement you would find acceptable.[/quote]

Op here. I’m divorced too and honestly ok with (and even prefer) just living together over marriage in some circumstances.[/quote]

If that's the case why are you asking this question,? Shouldn't you know if this situation is right for you? 🙄

You want to play both sides so you don't have to take responsibility if things don't work out.
You want to be married again just say that. It's fine.
Pretending to be something you aren't is a guaranteed way to end up divorced again.
If things end because you want marriage and he doesn't. That's okay.
And you are honestly better off without a guy who wants to project his issues with his ex onto you and your relationship
He's not you'll defend him
 He is and that will become more apparent the longer you are with him 
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