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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And then you have a sort of log of them over time of how you perceived they mistreated you? For me, it’s encountering a spouse who is constantly angry and takes sharp digs at me. I feel that in helpful and kind mostly. So write little notes down trying to understand what took place at the time these things happened. Then I look back and it’s just a bunch of shtty notes. Anyone else? Just to sort of keep their sanity?[/quote] That's sounds a lot like keeping score, which is NEVER healthy in a relationship. If you need to write things down to keep score on ways they've hurt you, you're not writing the right thing down... you should be writing them down in your divorce papers. [/quote]
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