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[quote=Anonymous]We are doing our first anonymous DE IVF cycle right now and I am trying to figure out if we should get the donor a small gift. On the one hand, I don't want to make the donor uncomfortable by making a connection that she doesn't want. Any gift, even a note, makes us real to her in a way that she may not want us to be. (I would never include any information by which she could identify us. That would not be fair to her.) But, I would like to say thank you and I don't want her to think that we don't understand how much her decision is helping us. In her profile, she said that she really likes to cook. I was thinking of getting her a really nice cookbook (maybe a new one or maybe trying to find a first edition of one of the more famous old cookbooks.) Would that be something that she would not want hanging around reminding her of the donation? [/quote]
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