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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the replies.  It sounds like most people in this situation just give up on getting help from the teacher and resort to outside resources like homework club or a tutor.  [b]Is there nothing DC can do to get productive help from the teacher?  
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DC has said they'll try the peer help.  Not sure a professional tutor (like once a week -- don't think we could afford more) would be able to help as often as DC has questions or at least timed right to help for tests.  Are people paying for tutors multiple times/week?

And to answer a question, DC is asking for help in class (during a break or at the end) which sounds like an appropriate time.  I suggested going in at lunch (with advance notice to the teacher) but DC feels intimidated to do that under the circumstances.

For the teacher PP: I'm worried that complaining about the teacher would make things worse for DC in class with a teacher who is harsh as is.  [b]What would you suggest telling the teacher if I schedule a one-on-one meeting?  [/b]Reporting what I've heard are the problematic responses to questions (I'm sure the teacher would deny it)?  DC is reluctant to mention their anxiety and effect this situation is having because they don't think the teacher would be supportive and I agree. [/quote]

There is nothing your child can do to force this teacher to provide additional help, no.

Re: A meeting - I'd suggest you tell the teacher pretty much what your kid told you "DC said you told them that you refused to explain the problem again and also questioned if this was the right class for them." I'd like to address both issues. If the teacher denies it then I'd end the meeting and say, "I'm glad we cleared up this misunderstanding. Can you please tell me your office hours for DC to come and request additional help?"

You need to channel some assertiveness here and advocate for your kid. High school is an excellent time for them to LEARN to advocate for themselves, but you're still there for backup.[/quote]

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