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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Context matters so, so much in this question.[/b]

Controlling spouse who is trying to distance spouse from fiends and family? Or just doesn’t want to look after his or her own kids for a weekend and expects other spouse to do so? I’d take that weekend trip without feeling guilty?

Or is this the 3rd weekend away in several months and spouse hasn’t had a break or trip on their own? Then it’s fair for spouse to not be excited about another one.

On budget - does spender always overspend or is this unusual? Does spouse get the same “fun money” or are they the ones who always have to ‘take the hit’ when money is tight?

I think it’s important to be fair(ish) and thoughtful and generous to the most important person in our lives- but not at the cost of no savings or a stressed out/ burned out spouse who doesn’t get the same treatment in return. [/quote]

THIS

My husband has never said no to anything like that so if he did I would take his objection very seriously. But that might not be remotely relevant to your situation. [/quote]

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