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[quote=Anonymous]Op you are being very nice to call out that you didn’t know it was a big deal. But honestly you are t the issue here. The fact that this is a big deal to him (either then OR weeks later) is the key problem here. As others have pointed out, she is 10 on a REC league and she’s not missed any other games or practices. You are not teaching her to be a flake. You are teaching her that you honor prior commitments/plans that she made with her grandparents. If it’s five years from now on a travel league where you purchased tickets AFTER the soccer season schedule was posted, that’s worth a convo and a reschedule. But this is DH throwing a fit bc he’d rather do the soccer dad thing than go to the theatres and hes leaning into the commitment and not letting the team down thing as a justification. Truth is—the team (including coach) is not gonna care. She’s 10. Grandparents would be sad though. HIS priorities are out of whack.[/quote]
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