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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t know about you but that has got to be the most condescending and disrespectful thing you can say to a partner. Especially when DH wasn’t being attacked. We had an issue today with one of our children and I asked him if he could commit to a plan with me to address the situation. He said yeah I’ll think about it. But I pressed him a little more asking if he could commit to a timeframe of when we could realistically sit down a create a plan - for the plan….

He kept being so dismissive of me, rolling his eyes and saying are you done, what else. I felt like at that point, saying anything else was a total waste of energy because I was talking to a wall.

I was trying to close the conversation but expected that we could at least make a commitment to when we could come back to this issue to begin to address it.

He’s said this to me throughout our relationship and I’ve been in therapy for a while now and I communicated my needs during that conversation and also my need to not be disrespected by my partner. He still rolled his eyes.

What’s next? This is our main issue but I feel pretty strongly that I don’t want my partner to continue to do that to me. I know part of the problem stems from his own anxiety. He wants to focus on doing the physical things for our family like washing the dishes but forget if we need to talk through something with for our family.

We know the problem, we know the solution but he’s not willing to make the time to work on himself to help us. 
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