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[quote=Anonymous]I was out of town for work. My husband texted me out of the blue:

“If you have a problem about any activity I do with the kids (like me watching a show that you watched with them) please talk to me not the kids. We agreed not getting the kids involved in our issues and I expect you to keep to it.”

Then:
“Blocking texts for the rest of the night”

Context: I started watching a TV series with the kids. They mentioned they watched some with him. I said “oh, I was hoping you would wait for me — I want to know what happens.” They explained they watched with him and I said maybe you guys can find another show to watch.

I have no idea what they told him. But I think this text is unreasonable and the blocking texts is just rude and unacceptable. He lashes out in anger when he’s triggered and does not apologize or acknowledge his behavior. Our therapist tried to talk to him last week about how “no one would think it’s ok to yell and shout in the house when they’re angry” and “no one wants to live that way.” Crickets from him.

I just don’t want to live this way anymore. We have two young elementary kids. I don’t want to have them move between two houses but I’m reaching the end of my room with DH’s inability to self regulate and handle trivial issues with maturity. WWYD. We have therapy soon and I want to raise this, suggestions on how?[/quote]

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