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[quote=Anonymous]If you are sister B - sometimes the person in sister A feels punished for the hard work they put in to make something happen.  they may have had a thousand sleepless nights working on their business, put in work and taken risks you'd never take, while you had your comfortable 9-5.  They might have sacrificed a lot then, given up all leisure time or time with their kids or whatever.  And now you want to reap in the rewards with them - using their money and their time while you yourself may have been living a much easier life all those years they were building.  its not yours to spend or allocate any more than they could have demanded you owed them something while they were building the business, you each made your life choices and now each live with the outcomes of it.  that doesn't mean you have to pay more than you can afford, but that does mean an attitude that they should use more of their time and money than you because they now have it is really unfair

if you're sister a - put in the care you want for your mom and try to stop thinking about your sister.  this is about what you're willing to do for your mom, if your sister is willing or able to do less for whatever reason that's unrelated.  do what you'll feel good about, believe your sister is selfish if you want for not doing more, but try bother trying to negotiate.  She's willing to contribute x amount to your parents care, that's unrelated to what you're willing to contribute [/quote]

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