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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Recently left an abusive marriage (over 20 years);  I am still being stalked, harassed, sabotaged and threatened.  Working with a DV program, but support is very limited.  Was a SAHM, so needing to start over.  2  pre teen kids, one young adult/college bound.  Kids being bribed, brainwashed and alienated.  Trying to survive.  [/quote]

I hate to say this, BUT that some of this is very high level and can be said that it is only being seen through your lens. You dont really spell out what the abuse was- mental, emotional, physical etc.

Stalking is something that you can prove and take care of legally. Harassed/Sabotaged/threatened harder to "prove" but you don't spell out what is being done here, so while it could be proved, it could also be disproved. Would a judge say that you are 100% being harassed or that you feel like you are harassed?

Kids being bribed/brainwashed/alienated, again hate to say but you may have to put up with some of that. You cant control what he says about you, you cant control what he buys them or why, you cant control many things now that you are not a unified front raising kids. I am not saying its right, but I will say that kids are smarter then they look and will grow up to see what it "real" in life and what is not.

The only thing you can do is control who you are and how you choose to react and how you choose to raise the kids.

Feel for you![/quote]

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