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[quote=Anonymous]If I knew we had to have it in advance (as opposed to it spontaneously arising), I'd let them know I wanted to talk about x, and could we set aside some time to do that. Sometimes things just spill out and we have a serious talk on the spot. I find those so, so draining - but they can be productive. Just not my first choice. I despise the serious talks in public thing. I think it's something people do when they know they're going to upset someone and they don't want to deal with that upset. Definitely not okay for a spouse (unless there's a safety concern, but that's a whole other ball of wax).[/quote]
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