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[quote=Anonymous]Hi,

I am going through divorce right now. DW 38 is leaving me for someone else. We have 2 kids 12 and 9. I am not taking this well. To add insult to injury she appears kind of excited and liberated as a result of this. She is not showing any sadness. We have been married for 11 years and been together 16 years. She was only my second girlfriend when we started dating and the only woman I have been with sexually.

I am taking this hard because I am an introvert I don’t have any friend. I have a good friend but he lives hours away. So I am pretty much alone. In the only child too so can’t even talk to it to a brother or sister.  The only time I am not sad is when I am with my kids.

Now I am thinking about the future. I can’t change my personality at 45 but I can try to be more outgoing. Being so shy around woman how do I even go about meeting someone new? Where do I go? Honestly I am more scared about the future than loosing my wife. Yes loosing her sucks but she doesn’t love me anymore so eventually I will forget about her. But what comes next given my shyness, being 45 and divorced with 42 kid will probably take many potential women out of the picture.

At 45 I am still attractive. I work out a lot and I have a beautiful and muscular physique (although I haven’t been to the gym in months now due this flunk I am in….) I am also very kind but someone will just have to go past my shyness to see that I am not as boring as I look. I am just not a social butterfly.

So guys any tips any advice to help me cope with this….And her leaving me for another man has shattered my ego as a a man [/quote]

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