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[quote=Anonymous]Hi, we had a helluva day yesterday. Our 2.5 year old had a great active morning, then skipped his nap and started melting down around 3:30pm. And it just wouldn’t stop. My husband got so mad, he started yelling like I’ve never heard him before at our son. Putting him in time out wasn’t working, and they were just yelling at each other. They both seem to have lost it. And the son is just yelling back and being defiant. At 2…! Finally, I decided to change the environment and go outside. So I say “let’s go to the store for a cookie.” That starts a whole getting dressed tantrum and the “I want the cookie and I don’t want the cookie” tantrum. We finally get out of the house. He’s clipped into the stroller and he’s now yelling outside and pulling down his pants because he doesn’t want “those pants.” So we change pants in the middle of the park and I start carrying him and pushing the stroller. Exhausting as he would not let me put him back in the stroller, but at least he wasn’t not screaming as much anymore. By the time we got to the store, he was calm and got the cookie. It all just feels so exhausting and emotionally draining. The husband yelling, then offering a cookie and taking him out of the house. Does anyone else feel like everything they do ends up being the wrong thing? How do you intervene with a spouse who’s also having a meltdown, or walk back a wrong idea with a toddler (think cookie) after it’s been mentioned? Still upset and it’s already the next day…[/quote]
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