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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One minute I feel so lucky I met him and he is a part of my life, the next I’m wondering why I am with him!? It’s so crazy. He can be such a downer over the simplest things. I just don’t get it. It’s like he chooses to put a damper on things. He’s not always that way, but when he is, it’s for reasons I cannot comprehend.

I thought we had crossed over a difficult period and achieved a level of intimacy that had brought us to a better level of understanding. But a few days later he’s back to his old ways of disregarding me and my feelings. [b]I’m back to having to explain to him why he can’t treat me that way especially in front of our kid.[/b] He apologizes, but it’s back to square one again. It’s so tiresome.

I’m just letting go of trying to make things work in terms of us being a couple who does couple things. I’m focusing on myself and the running of the household and being a good mother. Anything beyond that, he is not interested and I’m tired of trying to make him interested. He’s only interested for a couple of days after we have amazing (for him) sex, but then, zap! back to square 1. I don’t expect him to make feel special, but he does the opposite of that. And that’s just not cool.
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The bolded, to me, indicates you both are at a point in the relationship where you don’t know what the f*** you are doing and need a counselor or third party professional.[/quote]

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