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[quote=Anonymous]We did find out at 20wks and I'll say there isn't a pro or con either way other than whether having more certainty earlier on is a good thing for you. For us, one of the pros is that we knew we were one and done, so it was nice to be able to make some stereotypically gender-specific choices regarding decor and clothing. That's a minor thing, though. We only had to sort out one name, not two. Our child's birth ended up being very stressful including an emergency c-section so it wasn't the joyful placing of the newborn into my arms with that excited announcement that we all envision happening. Again, that's not common so I wouldn't make that a reason not to wait until birth, it was just our experience. [/quote]
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