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[quote=Anonymous]Long story short, found out that boyfriend’s long term former partner is HSV2+ and has regular but infrequent outbreaks. Boyfriend did not disclose this exposure to me and never got tested. The first time I asked him about he claimed he never knew, if she had it while he was with her he wasn’t aware. I now know that was a lie. Frankly I don’t care that much about being exposed. I would have done a few things differently—made him get tested specifically for herpes before having sex (we both got the standard panel which doesn’t include herpes), probably used condoms for a few months to see if he was getting breakouts—but it would never have been a dealbreaker. I know it’s extremely common to have it and never even know, and very manageable. I could have it and not know. I care about not being up front with me and I care about the lying. This is not okay right? [/quote]
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