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[quote=Anonymous]You and your DH decide what you are ok with. Then you need to work very hard to stop caring that they are upset. It's not easy, especially if you've been a doormat in the past (which you have!). It's mainly your DH that need to buck up here. He just needs to tell them you aren't doing Christmas with them this year. End of story. Don't give reasons, don't list other options, just say it's not going to work. If they ask why you empathize that it's hard to hear but that it's not possible this year. Let them throw a temper tantrum. [/quote]
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