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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People pick partners for the wrong reason, like looks, money, social status.

Many times there are red flags and people ignore because they think they will change.

You need to have a common goals, morals, values, financial strategy, be in sync about money, kids and your future.

I am not religious, but the pastor that married us made us do pre marital counseling.  We had a questionnaire and met for 2 hours but there were topics that made us think and discuss for awareness. It was good. We have been married for 25 years. We’ve had ups and downs but I know I am with the right person till the end. [/quote]

Look what do I know - but I am guessing the fact you both were willing (and even eager) do to that kind of intensive, religious-based counseling is what indicates a good match for you, more than your answers to the question.
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I agree.  The counseling was not intense or really religious per se but showed we had a common goal to always work on our marriage and that it was going to be work at times and not always easy.  We had to work through our challenges together with respect. And our answers were not the same on most questions but we respected each other for them.

We are not particularly religious, Maybe attending church once a month.  [/quote]

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