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[quote=Anonymous]I think it is luck. I got lucky that my spouse hasn't had any physical health issues, mental health issues, family issues. His career has remained relevant.

You write "it seems either majority of humans are either bad people, bad partners themselves or bad at picking partners."

Does a bad marriage mean you are a bad person and a bad partner or bad at picking partners? No. It doesn't. We are all human, we all make mistakes, we all make a bad choice. And if we make a bad choice and our spouse makes a bad choice that can undercut our marriage and stability. If we make a mistake but our spouse is able to to make a better choice maybe we won't have the same disastrous experience. But some of that is luck. Some of that is timing. Some of that is what our parents taught us.

Just because I make a big mistake at age 53 causing havoc in my marriage doesn't mean I am a bad partner or that my spouse had a bad picker when we were 25. It means at 53 I made bad choices.

Mistakes don't make somebody a bad person or a bad partner. It gives us the opportunity to grow.[/quote]

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