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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Was he like this before, but it was at work and you didn't notice?

I have a husband who goes through phases of being taciturn and chatty. He also has very little self-awareness and tends to get angry and mean when I point these things out. His father was diagnosed bipolar, and I've wondered whether he has a subclinical, super mild version of it.

Maybe in your husband's case it's dementia?
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OP here:  Interesting. My husband protects himself from any feedback or criticism by throwing everything back on me. I pay a price if I attempt a constructive conversation with him. He gets angry and mean and storms out the door. Even while raising kids he did not engage in any of those many tough parenting moments. I guess he is the classic example of an adult child of alcoholic, and cannot handle anything that he sees as conflict. He gets very mean. This morning he got triggered and ended up out the door with his typical disgust and went to mass. Based on my experience, this is typical Catholic behavior.
My husband definitely does not have dementia and functions at a very high-level in his work life. I believe it is anxiety and it has always been there. But don’t we all have anxiety?  He acts out and I need him to stop. [/quote]

PP you replied to. Yes, I entirely understand. I did finally realize that my husband cannot communicate in an appropriate way when he feels overwhelmed and, as you said, throws up his hands when it comes to difficult socio-communicative moments. I suspect he has high-functioning autism, as our son is diagnosed. But between his father's bipolar, and his son's HFA... I don't know. He has something but I don't know what! Of course this is moot anyway, since he would never agree to a consultation or treatment.

I'm sorry, OP.

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