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Reply to "What does it mean if I'm tempted to do something extreme to try to get dh to pay attention?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I don't even mean having an affair. I've been working so hard for so long and navigating health problems including cancer last year, colitis, a SN kid, and am exhausted, burned out beyond belief. I keep trying to get dh to engage in taking actions to help me take the gas off the pedal but he only pays lip service - eg if I say we need to move to lower COL area he says 'fine' but does nothing to help, and I am back to back for 10-12h per day so can be hard to make traction. I tried to engage him recently in a choice of new jobs for me and it was like pulling teeth. I have said to him - I am about to shatter into a million pieces pls help me figure out how to not do that and he just... doesn't care. A huge part of me is tempted to just quit my job for a year and completely leave it to him to figure out how to deal for once. Or SOMETHING. I feel like I am screaming and no one is listening. [/quote]
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