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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get tested for STDs. [/quote]

This step needs to come first so you can move forward at least knowing if you need medical treatment or not. And OP, stop having sex with him if you and he still have sex. You know he's getting it elsewhere and he does not deserve to have sex with you too. You plan to get out anyway, so focus your energy on getting out rather than fixing things with sex (if that's something you've thought of, or he's told you would work). [/quote]

I also learned it can take 6 months for STDs to show up. So you have to get retested as well.[/quote]

Thank you for adding that. I"m the person you're responding to and I should have added, yes, test but then also schedule the retest. STD testing doesn't get talked about enough on these unfortunate cheating threads on DCUM. It's the first stop to make because the cheated-on spouse needs to stay healthy for their own sake and for the sake of any kids involved. But that can get lost in the understandable mind-bending anger and sorrow. [/quote]

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