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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH does not do laundry. He used to sort of do it, but wouldn’t switch clothes to the dryer or put away clean clothes. [b]I finally made it my official chore out of annoyance with his unwillingness to follow through. [/b]Three weeks ago he came home from a trip and had to quickly leave for another, so he ran multiple partial loads of just his clothing even though I also had a lot of dirty laundry that could have completed the loads.

I’ve decided to only do my laundry from now on, since that’s what he did. The hamper is overflowing with just his clothing and he is acting like he hasn’t noticed. Based on the jeans he’s wearing from 2004, I’m sure he is aware that he is running out of clothing.

For the record, every other chore that he owns as “his” are ones that I pick up and complete if he can’t finish them or is traveling. If I am gone, chores that are “mine” are left until I return.

Anyway, bets on how long this goes on before he says something or does his laundry?[/quote]

Well how many pairs of underwear does he have left? Maybe by this weekend????[/quote]

It's [b]your [/b]chore.* when he did his laundry, he was doing part of your chore. You are mad that he did not do all of your chore by including thel laundry? It sounds like he's not great with the laundry, so I'm not sure why you wanted him to do yours anyway.

*I get that you don't think the laundry should be your chore. I get that you're still mad about that. However, that's a separate issue. Since you took on all the laundry (even begrudgingly) I don't understand why you are now mad at him all over again because he helped you with only part of it when he did his own clothes.

I really think the best thing for you to do is have a conversation where you say that you are no longer doing his laundry. Each do your own. That's fine so long as everyone is on the same page. If he doesn't transfer his laundry over, just stick in a basket when you need the machines to do yours.[/quote]

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