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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does it have to be one or the other? Why put yourselves against each other? I really like DC’s SO’s parents. Obviously our families are different, but I hope they can enjoy the positive aspects of our family when they are here & vice versa. Don’t make this into a thing. I know families who try to compete, track time, take over, etc - it ultimately ends in resentment & retreat. Enjoy the time you spend together, without an eye towards “beating” the other side.[/quote] TY! FWIW, my parents might've been seen by some as the lame ILs. They didn't have a ton of money and lacked confidence - my ILs are the exact opposite. But they were kind, caring people and part of the reason I married my husband is that he liked them for who they were and that they were my parents. [/quote]
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