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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my cheating ex got into extensive therapy I would let him date me again and would have a relationship if he was making my life better in other areas. I do love having our family together. Would probably routinely std test or use protection.[/quote] Just want to add that we get along well in each others company and he still fully funds mine and kids lives so he’s not an overall bad person just [b]insecure and broken[/b].[/quote] What’s he been doing while you’ve been apart? Serious therapy? What about therapy for you? And the two of you — couples therapy? If you did take him back, can you ever imagine feeling safe, confident, and secure in the relationship? What if he’s late getting home one night? Or has to travel for work? Full disclosure: I tried and failed at being able to live again with my cheating ex husband. I truly thought I could do it, but just never felt fully comfortable or confident again in the relationship. Betrayal is a very, very hard thing to get past. It’s tainted all relationships since. [/quote]
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