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[quote=Anonymous]Basically my friend has completely transformed her life to get healthy. She's super strict with food and workouts. Which is great for her.  Our friend group has tried to be accommodating as we can and do things that she will be able to partake in (for instance if we went to a restaurant she wouldn't eat because her diet is that strict so we do non food things)
There started to be issues about a month ago when we had a party for one of our friends at my house. I made sure I had food she could eat but she still made some passive aggressive comments about the food offered for others
It has all come to a head as we've started to plan our annual 4 day weekend away.  We typically book somewhere warm and just veg on the beach with drinks and food and eating out at fun restaurants.  Well, friend has been texting us staying we are insensitive and rude for wanting to keep doing this knowing she would not be able to partake in all that.

I need to say something to her because I've been the closest to her but I'm very conflict adverse. The reality is, we have accommodated her a ton. But we are all tired and stressed out moms who enjoy this weekend away and really want to do what we want.  Friend can still come and enjoy everything, but we aren't going to skip dinners out that we enjoy because she can't eat it.  And that's what she's so upset about.

So I guess just looking for advice on how to phrase things.  Anytime I come up with something, I just feel like its ruder than I want to be. [/quote]

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