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[quote=Anonymous]Why are you divorcing? Only you know what works best for you, but this seems like a way to remain married / enmeshed / etc. are there behavioral / relationship patterns and dynamics that led to the divorce that you think will change because of a legal divorce? Resentments? Ways of treating each other? Are you adhering to a strict custody schedule? Or is this something you’ll have to negotiate every day? Like - oh, I’d it ok if I go out on Tuesday? I’m divorced, and actively co-parenting 2 kids. Lots of communication with XH. I cannot imsgine being divorced and still having to negotiate / co-manage household duties, schedules / free time etc. I also think it may be confusing for kids - but your situation may be different. Your kids (and X) are going to notice when you’re gone for an overnight, eg. [/quote]
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