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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi guys,

I want tips on how to live in the same house with a cheating spouse who thinks I am clueless and who I think is currently in love with the AP.

I won’t lie but this is really affecting my pride because she probably thinks I am stupid and clueless and she ia getting away with it.

The thing is for financial reasons divorcing her right now will hurt me more than her. And frankly I just don’t have the financial means to go through a contested divorce. But the divorce is coming just not right now.

So in the meantime what I can do to get back at her? I thought of responding in kind by getting an affair partner as well but this is not who I am.

[b]We are already not sleeping in the same bed. And we are not having sex either. [/b]

I feel like divorcing her will be rewarding her because me being the sole provider she will end up with a nice alimony. We have twin boys who are 10. [/quote]

I don’t want to be glib, but if you are not sleeping in the same room or having sex, why exactly do you care who she is having sex with?  How long has your marriage been sexless?  Not even sleeping in the same room suggests there’s a void in intimacy.  There is more going on in your marriage than just an affair, that is for sure.[/quote]

So by your logic her cheating is justified. She is just a coward. She can ask for a divorce if she is hot happy, but of course that would deprive her of the stability she wants to keep.[/quote]

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