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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You've got it all wrong. You're working on the marriage, he's working on not paying for a divorce. Why would he be honest with a therapist when he happily lied to his wife for over a year? You don't matter to him anymore. Act accordingly. [/quote] Or, he'll realize that infatuation is not enough to break his family apart and pay for two households. Love doesn't pay the bills or facilitate custody. Just because they've exchanged expressions of love doesn't mean they are in a position to start again together, and in time, he might realize he's got it pretty good with you. However, this new state of the relationship might not be enough for you, OP. I would take some time to think about it. You can try therapy and counseling, but don't pin your hopes on them. Often they're quite useless.[/quote]
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