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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he acknowledge or explain his behavior?[/quote] And importantly, if you discussed it with him, do you think he's capable of acknowledging the hurt he caused, and addressing why he chose to strike at something I'm guessing he probably knew was a vulnerability. My DH isn't. We would just wind up talking about him and his feelings and thoughts. He'd seek to blame me somehow for what he did, and we'd argue about that. It's just more pain to discuss it with him. It's better for me to work through it on my own or with a therapist I am aware of what this says about my relationship, but it's realism. I learned this with my parents as well. If someone is closed off to the idea that the should be accountable for hurting you, someone they ostensibly love, no amount of conversation will change that. It has to come from within them.[/quote]
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