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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I make 3-5 times what my husband makes and I would never do this. We are 100% a team. I wonder if there is more than just the money piece to this. In my case, my husband’s job has more flexibility and he has done lots of kid stuff over the years which allowed me to move up the ladder. I could not be where I am without him (unless I had chosen not to have kids).[/quote] Yes, I suppose there is more. I only decided to pursue a career at the level I’ve pursued it when reality set in that I simply have to in order to live comfortably, pay for education, and save for retirement. He doesn’t think it is necessary to save for college, and he doesn’t think its necessary to have enough savings to do things like update our home modestly over the next 50 years. So we have big value differences that I failed to identify before marriage. And I would rather be the one spending more time with my kids, not the other way around. [/quote]
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