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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know what I would do - it's a hard spot to be in.  You have such a tight relationship with this family but I would also be very concerned for this girl.  What can you really say though as you've tried to broach this topic and was immediately shut down before, I don't think it's a subject you'll get traction even if you mention the conversation you had with the daughter.

If you encourage the girl to [b]talk to a school counselor or someone other than you all,[/b] maybe an outside voice will have a shot at confronting the parents.  I don't think you should MYOB but I think for you to directly get involved is friendship suicide.  I'd try that but if it doesn't work, you'll have to let the girl take the lead - as she gets older- she'll have to self advocate.[/quote]

The bolded.  What she describes is unfortunate, but it's not abusive.  You're also only hearing her side of the story.  It's great that she confided in you, and she could also benefit from objective guidance and support.

I understand how this situation could influence your friendship with her parents.  It happens.[/quote]

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