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[quote=Anonymous]Is s/he also divorced? How does s/he speak about prior relationship(s) and why they failed? I dated a divorced guy once, and another guy who had been long term committed and then the relationship failed. Both had children which was my primary attraction because I was childless and wanted to be a stepmom. Over time it became apparent that both men blamed the ex for everything that went wrong and had little insight if any to their own shortcomings and that they had room for improvement. That’s my red flag. You can have a million things in common with somebody - values, lifestyle, etc. - but if they are not insightful about their own junk, they aren’t good relationship material and never will be, at least not for a mature person who wants a mature relationship. [/quote]
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