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[quote=Anonymous]It's too thorny for you to weigh in on what your friend should do, or even how he should handle it. I would let him know you care about him, his wife, and his kid, that you support his transition and want to be there for him, but that given your friendship with his wife, you feel it's not right for you to offer advice or weigh in. Encourage him to see a therapist (I'd be a little surprised if he isn't already given the recency of his transition) and to talk to his wife about his feelings. Other than that, I don't think you need to do anything. Whether and how you can support him through a divorce will depend a lot on how he handles it, how his wife handles it, and what the friendship dynamics are that grow out of that. Hopefully you will never be asked to pick a side and can just show up for both of them as needed.[/quote]
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