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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love those calling this a troll post just shows how effed up my situation is  - good lord.[/quote]

So you're OP? I still don't get what's going on. Fourth person?

So you're married and AP was married and now isn't? Or you're single and AP was married and now is single? And AP was having affairs with you AND one other person, this "fourth"? You mention "a friendship with an ex for years" so was that the person sending your AP those salacious texts? Because if you believe this was a friendship with an ex -- you are more naive than anyone in an affair really ought to be, OP.

Do you get that being called troll, and having any configuration of what i wrote above, is all effed up? Maybe stop seeing anyone [i]at all[/i] and take time to delve into why you were engaged in a relationship with someone who was unavailable and whether you got off on the secrecy etc. I'm not saying that judgementally though in print it may read that way. But you need to ask yourself why you made this choice, why this person, and why you are not furious that your AP was texting like this with a supposed ex. And why you're willing to believe that this "ex" is truly an ex and not another AP. Quit your AP and focus on yourself and what this affair fulfilled in you, and why you tolerated it.

And yeah, if AP will cheat with you, AP will cheat ON you. Sure, there are couples who began as APs and who last. But look at threads here about people whose APs later cheated on them if they got together. Have more self-respect, and do the work of more introspection, OP. [/quote]

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