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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are human and jealousy is normal. Dcum hates jealousy so you will not get support here. But it’s normal. You want what he has. So go try and get it. [/quote]

+1. You feel jealous because he has things you want and don't have. I feel that way all the time. It's normal and the best thing you can do is acknowledge and accept it, and then try to move past it.

Feeling jealousy is normal and common. The key is what you do with it. Ideally, jealousy can inform you of what you value and perhaps guide some of your own choices in your life. If that's not possible (certain things are circumstances, not choices), you just have to learn to accept it.

Also, and this will really make people on DCUM mad, but it's okay to take some space from someone who provokes a lot of jealousy, if you are having trouble dealing with it or it makes you feel particularly upset. Some comparisons can be painful and there's nothing wrong from just choosing not to expose yourself to it if it's going to have a negative impact on your mental health.[/quote]

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