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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's pretty simple- it's another way of saying [b]the spouse has to be on their spouse's side to support the issue.[/b] Otherwise with really dramatic in-laws- YOU can become the bad guy with no support if they decide to triangulate and are successful. In other words- put your spouse first in your marriage, not between you and your parents. If you have a drama free family/in-laws, it is a non-issue- but that is far from the majority- thus the reason people state the obvious a lot.[/quote] OP here. I agree with the overall point you are making, particularly the bolded. But I don't see why that means I can't speak my own mind or talk directly to the person who is affecting me, or my children. I can do that....and also know that my spouse will back me up if it comes down to it. In fact, he will back me up in any situation, that doesn't mean he has to HANDLE every situation.[/quote]
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